Sarah Jillings discussed the
importance of authenticity. In order for the world affirm us for who we truly are, we have to be willing and able
to show the world our “real” selves. I
agree that pretending to be somebody we are not, keeping true expression inside
is a binding, unhappy way to go through life.
As I thought about it, I wondered who my true self is. Who am I?
That is a very complicated, overwhelming question to which I do not
think there is an answer. Humans cannot
identify themselves in a word, sentence, essay, or even a million words. It is impossible to define who someone is
because we are always changing.
Identities are not a concrete concept.
We can, however, have a good sense of our core selves and values, of who
we want to be. We can have
self-confidence. We can show our current
selves—but that doesn’t mean we have to be able to define them.
Timothy
Treadwell showed his authenticity in his determination to pursue his passion
regardless of public scorn and judgment.
In some ways, he is being his real authentic self. He discards federal law, leaves home and
loved ones behind to protect the bears.
However, he lacks connection with other people to reaffirm his identity,
who value his place and contribution to the world. To fill this void he lies to himself—makes
himself believe he has profound connections with the bears. Although he may feel connected, this is not
the type of connection Sarah Jillings is referring to because it lacks
reciprocation. He has to lie to himself
to trick himself into thinking he is happy.
The lies
are not very authentic. But if lies are
inescapable, we don’t exactly have a choice. Is complete bliss ever truly
achievable? If we have to lie to
ourselves to get it, is the happiness we feel “real”?